Deep and Wide, by Andy Stanley

411J3RGXsVL._SL500_In Deep and Wide, Andy Stanley tells the story of North Point Community Church.  He bares his heart, writes vulnerably, yet passionately sharing his commitment to creating a church that is about the activity of Christ.  People who were nothing like Jesus, really liked Jesus.  Andy Stanley thinks church is supposed to be representing Him to such people today.

I know that this creates tension.  Is church supposed to be for the unchurched?  Isn’t evangelism something we do “outside of church?”  I think these are important questions and worth wrestling with.  But I would share Andy Stanley’s concern that so many churches are functionally antagonistic to people getting saved and growing in relationship with Jesus Christ.  I might agree with the idea that church is primarily for believers, but don’t we all agree that we want to be part of a church that we wouldn’t hesitate to invite a friend to attend with us?

After all, didn’t Jesus teach something about the world knowing who we are because of our relationships with each other?  Actually, didn’t he pray about the world knowing about the love of the Father for the believers and the mission of the sent Son through the Godlike unity of the believers?  In today’s society, I suspect we need to let people look inside the church to see the unity Jesus was praying about in John 17.

Andy Stanley knows that this book will infuriate some, perhaps most, church leaders.  My opinion is that all church leaders should read this book and let it infuriate them (if that is the reaction…some will just be delighted!)  Maybe we will all have issues with some of the prodding and poking that comes through this book.  But if we are prayerfully conversing with God as we read, what do we have to fear?

Here is a quote from Andy in his chapter on preaching:

Okay, maybe we should end with something we can agree on.  Currently, I’ve got two kids in college and one who is about to finish high school.  All three of them love the local church.  If by some freak of chance they should end up living in your town and attending your church, please don’t ruin it for ’em.  Please don’t hide behind your tradition and your “this is how we do it here” habits and preach brown-and-serve messages to my kids.  Please don’t steal their passion for the church because you are too lazy to learn.  Too complacent to try something new.  Too scared of the people who sign your paycheck.

Okay, so my kids probably won’t attend your church.  But somebody’s kids are attending your church.  If you have kids, they are attending your church.  Every Sunday you are either instilling a deeper love and appreciation for the church or you are doing what most pastors do and providing them with one more reason not to attend when they no longer have to.  That’s a big deal.  I don’t want you to preach like me, but I do want you to be part of the solution.  I want the fact that twentysomethings are leaving the church and never looking back to bother you.  A lot.  It bothers me.  I think it bothers our heavenly Father.  Do you?

So if we can’t agree about the importance of preaching to unchurched people, surely we can find some common ground around our passion to recapture the attention and imagination of a generation of kids that is growing up in church but that can’t wait to leave.

Andy Stanley’s 7 Guidelines part 6

411J3RGXsVL._SL500_So to finish off Andy Stanley’s list of seven guidelines for preaching to the unchurched, here is number 7…

Guideline 7: Don’t go mystical . . . unless you want a new car.

I have resisted the urge to quote too much, so I’ve earned some quoting credit.

If you are serious about your weekend service serving as a bridge for those who are returning to faith or exploring faith for the first time, stay away from the mystical.  Even if you are in a highly charismatic church, stay away from the mystical.  You don’t live that way.  Nonbelievers don’t live that way.  So don’t preach that way.  Mystical just puts distance between you and your audience.

Now, on the other hand, if you are into positioning yourself as “God’s man” or “God’s anointed mouthpiece” or other such nonsense, then mystical is the way to go.  Mystical communicates that you have an inside track; you are closer to God than the people in the audience could ever hope to be.  Mystical creates . . . mystery!  And with mystery comes fear!  And that puts you in the driver’s seat.  Once you get your people thinking you are something special, they will treat you special.  Throw in a little prosperity theology and in no time you will be driving in style, dressing in style, and the people close to you will never question your decisions.  How could they?  You are God’s man.  It’ll be awesome.

Now, your spouse and kids will know you are a poser and a phony.  But eventually your spouse will get so accustomed to the fortune and fame, he or she won’t say anything.  Your kids, on the other hand, well, they’ll be a mess.  But you’ll have the resources necessary to ensure they get the best treatment options available.  Wear contacts.  Avoid reading glasses.  Get yourself an entourage, an Escalade, and some armor-bearers, and you will be good to go.  Oh, one other thing.  Stay away from the Gospels.  Things didn’t go well for those guys.  Stick with the Old Testament.  The Gospels could be hazardous to your charade!

While many may not quite follow through to that extreme, there are many who offer a mystical charade as a means of multiplying the sense of authority in what they say.  We need a radar for this kind of stuff in our own hearts and lives.  Actually, we have a radar.  He’s called the Holy Spirit.  So while a false mystical approach can be so damaging, a humble walk with the One able to search us and know us is so important for communicators.

Andy Stanley’s 7 Guidelines part 5

411J3RGXsVL._SL500_In Deep and Wide, Andy Stanley shares his heart, his journey and his strategy for creating churches that unchurched people love to attend.  As part of that, he gives seven guidelines for preaching to the unchurched.  Whether we embrace the whole model of church and approach to the Great Commission that Andy Stanley advocates, the reality of preaching to unchurched folks is one that all of us should be aware of (unless, of course, the unchurched will never come to your church, or be brought to your church).

Guideline 6: Acknowledge the odd . . . it would be odd not to.

Church folks like us have heard the odd bits so many times that it is normal fare in our biblical diet, but people unfamiliar with the Bible and its contents will find things odd.  Floating axheads, animals showing up at the ark in pairs, parting of the sea, etc.  Andy Stanley suggests that breezing past the odd content and heading straight for principles and applications will hinder those who aren’t used to such notions.  Instead, pause and acknowledge how strange it sounds.

For a start, to acknowledge the odd is to increase our credibility with those who are naturally skeptical.  They may already think we have left our brains in the cloakroom, we don’t need to reinforce such notions.  Furthermore, they need to know that it is okay to read the Bible critically.  In fact, it is okay to read it before believing it.  People will do well to question the supernatural aspects of biblical teaching rather than just swallowing something they still assume to be untrue.

Instead of skirting over or around these issues, take the time to offer a brief rationale for believing what is in the passage.  Stanley suggests that this will accomplish three things.  1. It points unbelievers to the real issue (typically the specific incident recorded is just a specific incident, but reinforcing the resurrection of Christ as an access point to the rest of the miraculous gets to the heart of the gospel revelation).  2. This will reinforce the faith of believers.  And 3. It gives believers a mini-apologetics seminar to help them with communicating to their colleagues and friends on such matters.

The list will be finished next time. . .

Andy Stanley’s 7 Guidelines part 4

411J3RGXsVL._SL500_How can we preach to the unchurched more effectively?  I’m walking through Andy Stanley’s list of seven guidelines.  This one might make you think:

Guideline 5: Avoid “The Bible says” . . . because it doesn’t.

This is the one that stood out to me.  This phrase is an obstacle to faith that is unnecessary.  Do people need to believe in the inerrancy or infallibility of Scripture to be saved?  Actually, no.  People were becoming believers before the Gospels were even written.  In Acts 15 the Gentiles were not given a requirement relating to the Scriptures for their salvation.  They were not even told to read the Old Testament, in fact, quite the opposite in some respects.

I hope that you believe in inerrancy and have a high view of the Bible, but that is not a pre-requisite for faith.  Most unchurched people are bombarded with a very negative view of the Bible in popular media.

So Andy Stanley suggests a fresh approach to talking about the text that doesn’t make it harder than necessary for the unchurched to come to faith.  He suggests not referring to it as a book, since in the minds of the unchurched the Bible is not a book in the normal sense of the term (and God didn’t write it in the way that a normal author writes a book).  Stanley suggests developing terminology that refers to the Bible as the miracle that it is – a collection of documents by over forty human authors written over more than fifteen hundred years and yet telling one coherent story.

A large part of why people think the Bible is full of contradictions and unreliable myths, etc., is because they have only heard Christians refer to it as God’s book (when it is obviously different authors in different times writing in different genre).  If we start to explain the reality of what it is, people are more likely to engage it and realize how good it is, instead of dismissing it based on “insider” terminology.  So Stanley writes, “Don’t talk about it like it is a divinely inspired book.  It’s not.  It is a collection of divinely inspired manuscripts.”

This means citing authors rather than simply, “the Bible.”  So instead of saying “The Bible says Jesus rose from the dead,” why not list the eyewitnesses that saw and recorded accounts of their seeing the risen Christ?  The first statement is a claim dismissible due to the prevailing view of the Bible.  The latter approach draws people into the reality of the evidence that we have in the Bible.

Stanley is not showing a low view of the Bible.  He is arguing that we should do nothing to keep people from hearing the gospel.  Part of that process is making the Bible as accessible as possible so people will hear what it says, rather than creating an obstacle that hinders hearing.  I think he has a point.

Andy Stanley’s 7 Guidelines part 3

411J3RGXsVL._SL500_Continuing a quick jaunt through Andy Stanley’s guidelines for preaching to unchurched people, from his chapter on preaching in Deep and Wide.

Guideline 4: Give ’em permission not to believe . . . or obey.

Since the New Testament addresses believers with instruction, we are accountable to each other.  But for some reason “Christians love to judge the behavior of non-Christians.”  (This is strange considering Paul addresses the issue in 1Cor.5:12-13.  So are we surprised when the world struggles to accept the judgment of people and a standard they have never acknowledged in the first place.  Ok, I need to quote a bit more, following Col.4:5-6…

Like you, I’ve heard way too many messages addressed at nonbelievers that were full of salt seasoned with grace.  That’s part of the reason so many unchurched people are just that: unchurched.  I think we would be wise to extend Paul’s advice to our preaching.  When addressing unbelievers, it should be all grace with just a pinch of salt.

So while there are expectations of believers, non-believers should be given an out.  They are welcome guests, but they are not the target of instruction.  And when they are given an out, then they may well lean in to discover more of how things work within this family they are visiting.  In fact, they may even respond to invitation.  But if they feel like they are being judged, critiqued, attacked or commanded, then there is a good chance their response will be less than favourable.

The next one will need more than the word count I have left, so I’ll keep you hanging until tomorrow, but it should provoke some thinking!

Andy Stanley’s 7 Guidelines part 2

DeepWideContinuing the guidelines for preaching to unchurched folk…

Guideline 2: Begin with the audience in mind… not your message.

Jesus could have launched into theological truth statements in respect to God and sinners.  But instead he began with sheep.  And coins.  Etcetera.  But Jesus didn’t come into the world to say true things.  So Andy Stanley makes a strong case for surfacing a sense of need in the listeners so that they feel compelled to engage.  He suggests that Christians have a lot more in common with the unchurched than we tend to realise.  So if there are not uniquely “Christian” problems, but just problems, then we should be able to engage listeners before we preach answers to them.

I love his confidence in how easy this is to achieve.  In reality I see an almost total lack of creating genuine need for sermons, and I find it difficult to surface need in my own preaching.  Too many preachers think an interesting or funny opening is sufficient to launch a message.  Actually, let me back up.  Too many preachers don’t seem to consider their listeners at all in introductions and just launch straight in.  Then there’s the anecdotal launcher.  Rare indeed is the preacher who has the listeners hungry for what is to follow by the end of the introduction.

Guideline 3: Pick one passage and stick with it… everybody will be glad you did.

Let me quote, “Anything we can say to make the Bible more approachable and less intimidating is a win.  This is why I am such a proponent of focusing the message around one text.  I realize there are topics that demand we draw people’s attention to more than one passage.  My advice is to make that the exception, not the rule.  Jumping all over the Bible illustrates how smart you are.  It rarely enhances an audience’s understanding of or love for the Scriptures.  And it totally confuses non-Christians.  Worse, it sets a terrible precedent for how they should read the Bible.  We don’t want new and non-Christians looking around the Bible for the verse that says what they are hoping it says.  We want them to let the Scriptures speak for themselves.  Messages built around proof-texting accomplishes the opposite.”  (I should stop, or I could keep quoting ’til the end of this section!)

Let me add… amen!

Andy Stanley 7 Guidelines

DeepWideI am reading, and enjoying, Andy Stanley’s Deep and Wide.  It is typical Andy Stanley writing.  That is, it reads like he has dictated it (and not in a dull dictation mode, but in a page-turning high energy presentation).  The story of North Point Community Church is fascinating, and the advice that pours through every page is thought-provoking.  You may not see church quite as he does, I have my differences too, but I think it is foolish to dismiss the advice without pondering it.

So I thought I’d ponder a bit through his seven guidelines for preaching to unchurched people.  This is one part of one chapter, but since the chapter is on preaching, it got me thinking.  I won’t quote too much, but just a taste:

Ultimately, I want people to fall in love with the Author of the Scriptures and his Son.  But I don’t have any control over that.  So my best option is to arrange the fate.  I figure if I do a good job, even if they don’t fall in love on the first date, there is always the possibility that something will happen on the second or third date. . . . I meet people who’ve been attending our churches for several years that say they aren’t there yet.  Nothing I can do about that except to continue arranging dates.  As long as they are sitting under the proclamation of the gospel, there’s hope!

So let’s meander our way through his seven guidelines for preaching to unchurched people, something that many admire in his preaching:

Guideline 1: Let ’em know you know they’re out there . . . and you’re happy about it.  

People who have not been to church in a long time feel like the odd one out.  “In many churches, they feel like guests who snuck into someone’s home.  They are not sure you are happy they are there.”  Stanley goes on to suggest that if you never reference them in your message then it will only confirm their suspicions.  He is pushing for more than a “if you are here for the first time…” reference.  He is suggesting comments that demonstrate recognition of discomfort, but seek to overcome it.

As early as possible, he suggests making it clear that you know they are present and that you understand where they are at.  Not every visitor is a “spiritual seeker.”  Some are resistant, some are there under duress, some feel profoundly awkward.  Lovingly addressing the congregation as if it is not all “insiders” is important.  Not only for the guests present, but also for the congregation who are considering inviting someone next week.

We’ll press on through the list tomorrow.

Two Ways to Feed 3

Food BadJust one more post for this week.  I’ve been (over)working the analogy of preaching as culinary work on behalf of others, suggesting that there are better and worse ways to “cook the meal” of a sermon.  Just one more thought:

There are those cooks who bring out the best in ingredients, and there are those that try to use ingredients to do what the cook wants.

Perhaps you’ve tasted cooking that really makes the most of what is in it.  Each vegetable prepared to flourish in its own way, the sauce offering the subtle richness and blend of each ingredient, and so on.  It takes a good cook to “honour” the ingredients in this way.  And then there is the bland cooking that tries to force every ingredient into the same mould.  Meat is meat, so turn it into parched tree bark.  If vegetables are boiled long enough, even the colour can join the flavour in the evaporated exit.  And perhaps a really bad cook will have the ingredients for one meal, but try to make another meal anyway, just because they want to.

So it is with preaching.  We are working with the absolute finest material – the inspired record of divine revelation.  There is a wonderful variety of genres, sub-genres, plots, themes, grand sweeps and tiny details.  Each writer’s personality subtly coming through, along with the Author’s thumbprint throughout.

Some preachers seek to honour the “ingredients” they are working with.  They observe and analyse and consider the text carefully and prayerfully.  They seek to reflect the text and they make it their goal to say the text’s something, not just their own anything.  They seek to say what the text says and do what the text does.  And in the process they both nourish and delight their congregations.

Others treat the Bible as a bland set of staple ingredients.  Mix freely, swirl it all together, bake for an inadequate time, and slop it up.  Essentially the goal is not to say the text’s something, or even the Bible’s something (although that will be the claim).  Rather, the goal is to say the chef’s something.  I wanted to make a chicken curry.  Didn’t have the right ingredients, but I made one anyway.

What a privilege to help people not only enjoy the richness of the Bible, but to introduce them to the wonderful God who gave it, and himself, to us.

Two Ways to Feed 2

ChiliYesterday I suggested that offering a meal is more loving than throwing a shower of vitamin pills at someone.  I’m not sure I want to overwork the analogy, but there is infinite variety even in the category of meal.  Here are some thoughts on pulpit cooking options.  I’ll let you evaluate each one:

1. Fast Food Preaching.  It is prepared quickly, in a very standardized process, with standard content, high on application, but almost bereft of nutrition.  Some people get addicted to it.  Some people grow sick of it.

2. Home Delivered Fast Food.  It is the same as number 1, but you didn’t even have to go and get it.  It was delivered by the internet delivery moped and saved you a whole load of time.

3. Home Delivered Fast Food Stolen.  Once you get it delivered, you hide the box and pretend that you cooked it.  There is a sensed lack of integrity, but you think everyone’s nice comments are genuine.

4. Thrown Together Left-Overs.  Again, short on time, you pull together scraps from here and there.  They don’t necessarily go together, but what you heard from him and what you read over there and what is on your mind once you pause to think about it . . . all served on one sermon plate.

5. Good Food Disconnected.  This is better, you have done some cooking.  But you haven’t grasped that while all food may be good food, not all good food goes together on the same plate.

6. One Favourite Recipe.  You have learned to do a mean chili con carne, so that’s what you cook.  Every time.  Guests coming?  Chili con carne.  Sorted.  Unless, of course, they come twice.  Works better if you are a traveling chef, unless people swap venues and then things get complicated 🙂

7. Good Ingredients Cooked the Wrong Way.  You take your chili con carne recipe and just replace the ingredients.  Problem is that it doesn’t work with a lamb joint, cooking chocolate or a fruit selection.  Forcing every Bible text into the same sermon shape may not be such a great solution!

8. Good Ingredients Cooked the Right Way.  Please cook salmon differently to beef.  Deal with each text and congregation and situation according to what and who they are.

9. The Fast Feast.  Seven good but random courses back to back in half an hour, without either break in delivery or connection in content.  Not ideal.

10. Non-gourmet home cooked healthy meal.  It isn’t exciting.  It won’t win a prize.  But it may win hearts as you give of yourself to those you love.  And over time, it will generate health like nothing else.

Two Ways to Feed

VitaminsThere are essentially two ways to feed someone.  I may decide to chase further possible analogies tomorrow, but for now, just two ways:

1. The pill shower.  Next to our stove we have a funny shaped little dish.  It usually contains some real treasures.  It is where my wife puts her supplements for the day.  There will be vitamin C for the immune system and various B vitamins for energy levels, and perhaps some fish oils for joint and heart health.  Every one of those pills has real value for health.

Let’s say I come home from work and join my family at the dinner table.  We pray and then my wife unveils the meal for the day – a randomly shuffled assortment of vitamin pills from the funny little dish!

Healthy? Technically it is.

Satisfying?  Nope.

Sustainable for long-term health and growth?  Hardly.

But is this not the way some of us preach the Bible to people in the church?  An assortment of truth nuggets randomly assorted and presented in some manner as a “healthy diet”?

There is an alternative:

2. The meal.  A meal tends to consist of a restricted number of elements carefully prepared and served in an appropriate order and combination.  A meal can be healthy, or unhealthy.  It can be gourmet or a highly processed “ready meal.”  Oh the potential points of connection are multiplying!

Preaching a meal means preaching a passage or a small combination of passages, rather than assorted truth nuggets from all over the place.  It means thinking about who you are preaching to and what they might need, rather than a standardized packaging of recommended daily allowance supplements.  It means building long-term health and growth and even taking issues of satisfaction into account (although not exclusively, of course, or they may get a case of itchy-ear-itis).

Meals tend to be different each time, whereas a diet of supplements would always feel the same.

Let’s preach meals, seems like a proven and healthy approach to feeding folks.  I’ll let you ponder the multiplying analogies. . . do you preach fast food, pre-packaged or home-cooked, etc.?