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Religion
Vicarious Conviction
There are people in the church who seem to be addicted to a form of vicarious conviction. Actually, I should say, two forms of vicarious conviction.
The first kind is where the preacher exhibits aggressive commitment to biblical truth. You probably know people, as I do, who are very vehement and aggressive and indignant and passionate . . . in private. That is, they will express themselves in the strongest terms about the quality of the food, but only until the waiter arrives, then they speak like a hesitant mouse. Or they are bordering on vitriolic in their complaints about somebody’s behavior, until that person arrives and they go very quiet and “disaffected nice.” I wonder if this is the kind of person that gets so stirred up by watching somebody express biblical truth in the most belligerent tones possible and affirms that kind of preaching (irrespective of whether the preaching was actually biblically or situationally appropriate or not). They love to see someone else expressing publically the kind of conviction they can only muster in private conversation.
The second kind is where the preacher pins the congregation up against the wall and beats them. Strangely some people seem oddly untouched by this, as if all the conviction is really directed at everyone else. The self-justifying person is untouched by the tirade, but they are so gratified to know that everyone else is getting what they need to hear. It is sort of a vicarious conviction where the self-justifying listener is thrilled to think that others are hearing something so challenging. They love to think others are being rebuked, blind to their own shortcomings, and tone deaf to the grace that is inherent in a gospel coming from the God of the Bible (or lacking in the tirade from the front).
True Fellowship
If you are gripped by what the Bible offers, then you will probably preach about the wonder of true Christian fellowship as it should be as one of your recurring themes. But a church is typically a very mixed group of people, including those seemingly not gripped by the same vision. And preaching can be a very lonely ministry. This seems to suggest there might be a problem for preachers.
Last night the ministry I am involved in had its final “graduation” meal together. (Cor Deo is online here.) The ten men who have been shoulder to shoulder for the past six months won’t gather in that way after today. We have delighted in God together, and therefore have found our fellowship to be true, deep and satisfying too. I suspect that we will not lose the taste for good fellowship with like-minded responders to God and will go out of our way to look for it in the next season of life. But some preachers seem to have never had the taster, and so preaching can be such a lonely experience.
Some preachers look within their church for this kind of fellowship. Perhaps a colleague or two in the formal ministry functions of the church, or perhaps others from the congregation. Often the challenge is for this not to become a church ministry focused relationship since there is always so much to discuss. Or for it to be restricted by what cannot be discussed. Somehow those in leadership often feel the need to be less than real due to some perceived image that must be maintained.
Some preachers look outside their church for this kind of fellowship. Perhaps a pastor of another church, or a person in a similar situation as far as ministry involvement. Maybe it is a friend who is safe to share with and offer a more unrestricted vulnerability.
Whether the person is in the church, or in another, is not the issue. What matters is that we don’t do ministry alone. We need true fellowship. That means standing shoulder to shoulder with others who share our delight in God, pursuing Him together and enjoying Him together. If our hearts are not gripped by the glorious grace of our God, then how can we truly serve the church as preachers of His Word? And as my youth leader used to say regularly – a burning coal removed from close contact with others will soon grow cool and lose the glow.























































