What to do after preaching? I suppose it is largely influenced by your church tradition, but for the sake of prompting thought, here are a few perspectives to which you can add yours:
The Stand at Door Option. Some churches like the preacher to stand at the door and shake every right hand that passes by. It guarantees pastoral opportunity to see everyone, but also guarantees a couple of other things too. For one, it guarantees that people who don’t particularly want to interact with you will feel obliged to say something polite and potentially insincere. For another, it means that people who really do want to talk to you will be rushed and probably won’t. Personally I find this option has more negatives than positives. I would rather stand on the door on weeks when I’m not preaching, and have someone else there when I do preach (but then I have the advantage of a plural leader home church – perhaps every week preachers should consider having a back up for some weeks on the door?).
The stay at front to pray with folks option. This obviously has advantages that the last option didn’t. It does make getting to you a known quantity, but also slightly intimidating for any that don’t want to swim upstream through the aisle to get to you. Also, if it is overplayed in terms of “prayer ministry” then when nobody comes to you, it may communicate that the message didn’t touch lives, which may or may not be true!
The mill about option. This has the advantage of not being either overwhelmed with right hands rushing away, or loneliness when people don’t swim upstream for a heart-to-heart in a public setting. But those that do want to talk may find it hard to approach if you look intent on getting to someone else, or thoroughly engaged with someone else. It takes sensitivity and approachability to pull this off to its maximum potential.
The run and hide option. Probably many preachers can relate to this frequent desire to interact with nobody after pouring out heart and soul in the sermon. While this may be tempting for several reasons, it usually isn’t the best approach. Vulnerable and drained as you may feel, prayerfully engage with folks and remember to bring praise, criticism and heavy loads to the Lord . . . they’ll probably feel like too much for you to carry!
Other options? What do you typically do? Advantages? Disadvantages?
