As a preacher who desires to be firmly planted in the world of the Bible and the world of the listeners, it can be a real challenge to be appropriately specific in your preaching. In a small church, everybody knows everyone and can easily figure out who you are referring to if you give a specific example – confidentiality undermined. In a larger church, people may not know who you are referring to. However, the person you are referring to can easily sense you are referring to them, and suddenly their trust can feel undermined.
Here are a few suggestions, perhaps you can add others:
Instead of defaulting to more general applications, translate away from one specific to another. Don’t refer to specific marriage problems when you’ve been counseling a couple in that area, but perhaps the application would work in terms of parenting struggles, work relationships, etc. Remember that people will translate one specific that you preach into the specific situation of their own life experience.
Keep a record of specific observations, potential illustrations, etc., so that you can adjust them and use them at an appropriate time. Right now everyone knows that particular marriage is on the rocks. You have an example from the situation that could be helpful, but right now is not the time to use it, even if confidentiality is protected. So having a good record system allows you to decide when to bring in an example to your preaching.
Always review carefully before you preach, considering how it could be taken as well as how you intend it. It may be easier to become non-specific and generic, but the result is not worth it. So keep the specificity in your preaching, but be careful to review ahead of each sermon to make sure you are aware of any potential land mines.
